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20 thoughts on “At Least One Of Them Finally Figured It Out”
My last one always asked what I thought, then would go through every detail explaining why I was wrong – especially if emotions were at stake. Finally, over a three-week period, I asked three separate times if there was anything I could do that would ever make her happy. Each time it was a no, so on the last one I said “then we are done,” and I walked out the door – even left.my clothes.
Oof. Sounds much like one of my ex girlfriends from way back. It didn’t start out that way, of course, but after about 6 months she turned into a relentless bitch. I chalk it up to some sort of psychological issue, but who the hell really knows? I did much like you, and asked her point blank what I could do differently that wouldn’t have her constantly pissed off. When she the me a wishy washy answer that was tantamount to nothing, I said “fuck it, I’m out.” Thankfully we weren’t living together, and I had a minimum few things at her place (toiletries and the like) that I wrote off. I returned the few things she’d left behind, which included a PlayStation2 (that I’m pretty sure she pilfered from a previous boyfriend), and then went full no-contact.
Amusingly, about a year later, she tried crawling back to me all tearful and shit (and with many more miles on the odometer) after her next squeeze not only gave her the big kiss off, but apparently a knuckle sandwich as well. Needless to say, I wasn’t having it.
I admire that.
Me; 37 years back, my response to a similar situation was to walk out and quietly return to active duty on the opposite coast. Alone.
It ain’t your job to make her ‘happy’ or vice versa.
True enough. But [far too many] modern women seem to think it is, based on my own experience, and what I have witnessed other men go through. And as a man, I can only be beaten down by an overly demanding, non-contented woman so many times before I check out for the sake of my own self preservation. It took me almost 20 years to learn that lesson. Some guys never do, and keep trying, usually to their own detriment.
I can’t speak to the female point of view, obviously, but I never expected a woman to make me happy. She could contribute to my “happiness”, but none I’ve been involved with were ever seen by my as the sole source of my emotional state. That had to come from within.
A girlfriend or wife could only serve to enhance it, or damage it, based on her own behavior. Conversely, any man expecting a woman to make him happy (when he isn’t otherwise), is deluding himself.
As you can tell, been there, done that; I never want to be involved with such individuals ever again. Sometimes I think there are more ‘takers’ than ‘givers’ in this world.
Sometimes I think that, too.
The rest of the time, I’m certain of it.
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Notice she has no wedding ring so did she figure it out to late?
Willingness to walk away is a superpower. Well done sir.
The ex filed for divorce and once I decided I agreed it was just a math exercise. The ex said I acted like I didn’t even care and I said “I’m not acting”.
At my first meeting with my lawyer he started asking me questions about the marriage and I stopped him and said “I’m not here for marriage counseling, we’re doing this.”
Mine told me “where I’m going, you cannot follow”, I said, Okay.
What’s funny is 6 months earlier I told her, “no fucking way am I moving back to the big city”.
Sold the house split the equity saw her new address on closing doc’s and just laughed at the test. Oh, where was her new residence? Take a guess.
2026 marks the 10th year from when my marriage imploded…have not dated since. There were lots of problems, some due to her childhood abuse issues and some due to my substance issues. The absolute very end happened at gunpoint. We had agreed to divorce, and she grabbed her purse and started to leave, but she tried to take the dog (a gift from her to me…so my dog) with her. I pulled my .45 on her and gave her a choice, go left towards the door and you live…go right, try to get the dog and you will die. She chose to leave. Kinda fucked me up for awhile, but I’ve survived. Moral of the story, be sure of what you’re getting into because the ending is neither written nor guaranteed.
It’s always a crapshoot JB.
Women are the masters of disguising their intent in a relationship. They go along with things making you think that they’re in agreement with situations. Suddenly, after YEARS of tacit agreement, they start reversing what you thought were settled situations, vociferously. They may have given hints along the way, but, as most men know, we don’t do hints and that’s why marriages break down, at least that’s my take having been through two that unfolded the same way.
See above Nemo
Is it possible to get a link to the rest of the video?
My last one always asked what I thought, then would go through every detail explaining why I was wrong – especially if emotions were at stake. Finally, over a three-week period, I asked three separate times if there was anything I could do that would ever make her happy. Each time it was a no, so on the last one I said “then we are done,” and I walked out the door – even left.my clothes.
Oof. Sounds much like one of my ex girlfriends from way back. It didn’t start out that way, of course, but after about 6 months she turned into a relentless bitch. I chalk it up to some sort of psychological issue, but who the hell really knows? I did much like you, and asked her point blank what I could do differently that wouldn’t have her constantly pissed off. When she the me a wishy washy answer that was tantamount to nothing, I said “fuck it, I’m out.” Thankfully we weren’t living together, and I had a minimum few things at her place (toiletries and the like) that I wrote off. I returned the few things she’d left behind, which included a PlayStation2 (that I’m pretty sure she pilfered from a previous boyfriend), and then went full no-contact.
Amusingly, about a year later, she tried crawling back to me all tearful and shit (and with many more miles on the odometer) after her next squeeze not only gave her the big kiss off, but apparently a knuckle sandwich as well. Needless to say, I wasn’t having it.
I admire that.
Me; 37 years back, my response to a similar situation was to walk out and quietly return to active duty on the opposite coast. Alone.
It ain’t your job to make her ‘happy’ or vice versa.
True enough. But [far too many] modern women seem to think it is, based on my own experience, and what I have witnessed other men go through. And as a man, I can only be beaten down by an overly demanding, non-contented woman so many times before I check out for the sake of my own self preservation. It took me almost 20 years to learn that lesson. Some guys never do, and keep trying, usually to their own detriment.
I can’t speak to the female point of view, obviously, but I never expected a woman to make me happy. She could contribute to my “happiness”, but none I’ve been involved with were ever seen by my as the sole source of my emotional state. That had to come from within.
A girlfriend or wife could only serve to enhance it, or damage it, based on her own behavior. Conversely, any man expecting a woman to make him happy (when he isn’t otherwise), is deluding himself.
As you can tell, been there, done that; I never want to be involved with such individuals ever again. Sometimes I think there are more ‘takers’ than ‘givers’ in this world.
Sometimes I think that, too.
The rest of the time, I’m certain of it.
Bwahahahahahahahahaha innerwebz reply to innerwebz comment of the day you two.
Notice she has no wedding ring so did she figure it out to late?
Willingness to walk away is a superpower. Well done sir.
The ex filed for divorce and once I decided I agreed it was just a math exercise. The ex said I acted like I didn’t even care and I said “I’m not acting”.
At my first meeting with my lawyer he started asking me questions about the marriage and I stopped him and said “I’m not here for marriage counseling, we’re doing this.”
Mine told me “where I’m going, you cannot follow”, I said, Okay.
What’s funny is 6 months earlier I told her, “no fucking way am I moving back to the big city”.
Sold the house split the equity saw her new address on closing doc’s and just laughed at the test. Oh, where was her new residence? Take a guess.
2026 marks the 10th year from when my marriage imploded…have not dated since. There were lots of problems, some due to her childhood abuse issues and some due to my substance issues. The absolute very end happened at gunpoint. We had agreed to divorce, and she grabbed her purse and started to leave, but she tried to take the dog (a gift from her to me…so my dog) with her. I pulled my .45 on her and gave her a choice, go left towards the door and you live…go right, try to get the dog and you will die. She chose to leave. Kinda fucked me up for awhile, but I’ve survived. Moral of the story, be sure of what you’re getting into because the ending is neither written nor guaranteed.
It’s always a crapshoot JB.
Women are the masters of disguising their intent in a relationship. They go along with things making you think that they’re in agreement with situations. Suddenly, after YEARS of tacit agreement, they start reversing what you thought were settled situations, vociferously. They may have given hints along the way, but, as most men know, we don’t do hints and that’s why marriages break down, at least that’s my take having been through two that unfolded the same way.
See above Nemo
Is it possible to get a link to the rest of the video?
Monique marvez
I like it, well done
when she is right she is right.
You know why divorce is so expensive ?
Because, it’s woth it.