It’s looking like the women folk are starting to see what’s really out there and are finding it lacking, bigly.
All of a sudden regular guys who have a job they go to and aren’t Soy Boy, limp wristed emotional wrecks seem to be in short supply.
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The full arm tattoo lets me know that she specializes in bad decisions.
Yes, she may express a valid point. But the extensive tatts cause me to discount her clarity of thought and decision making capability. And if I’m understanding her correctly, it sounds like she is a divorced (or otherwise single) mom, which means she probably didn’t follow the very advice she lays out in this video. Rather a conundrum, wouldn’t you say?
I know I’m a cynical bastard, but right now the whole “stop piling/hating on men” thing has become suddenly fashionable in social media circles. And so we are seeing a lot of videos being made that convey this message, or some related variation thereof. There are entirely YouTube channels of young , attractive women doing long form (20-3p minutes and longer) videos discouraging l the hate on men. And yet, they all have a linked Patreon to monetize their content with paid subscriptions. Let’s face it, there are a lot of people who will say just about anything for fame and money, so I remain skeptical of their motives.
And we know women (under a certain age anyway) love to do this kind of jump on the bandwagon/trending performative shit for attention even if they aren’t getting paid for it. Look how many other random things have suddenly trended on tiktok/insta videos where scores of women all get in on the act, then next month it’s something different again, so long as it’s widely perceived as popular in the moment. That repeatedly observable phenomenon makes it difficult for me to believe the sincerity of messages like this.
My point is that a lot of women will knowingly counter signal with things like this, once an idea or message looks to be hitting critical mass, because they know it will get a lot of men to either simp for them, or think more highly of them than the reality if their lives should entitle them to (in other words, men say to themselves “hey, this chick is different, she gets it. Eureka!”. But really, in most cases, it’s just the female “sneaky fucker” strategy being exhibited. All the worlds a stage, and women want to be front and center on it, all the time. Whatever strategy they believe gets them there is what they will employ.
Are you sure you aren’t a behavioral therapist or a psych nurse? That sounds like something I would have entered into a medical chart describing a woman’s assessment. It is clear and concise and a great summation.
Would you believe I’m a plumber (no joke) with further background in music, electronics, telecom and IT. Definitely an analytical mind, though. I’ve just spent enough time interacting with women to actually (mostly) figure out how they operate. And I have to admit, that’s not necessarily always a good thing for me.
It has pretty well taken all the “magic” out of interacting with women, and now I look at their quirks first and foremost through a filter of skepticism concerning their motives. Yeah, it has kind of ruined the illusion for me. But it also kept me from getting the Johnny Depp treatment; likely more than once, at that.
And know that there are a lot of Amber Heard types running around in the wild. There is a bonafide epidemic of psychological health crises out in the open that almost nobody cares to acknowledge. Look at the reactions of so many Trump haters in the last week. As much as we relish pointing, laughing at and shit-talking their unhinged behavior and meltdowns, it truly is a real life horror to consider once one gets past the initial bemusement at the spectacle of it all.
Nowadays I survey the wreckage of many decent men my age (50ish) who got beaten down in acrimonious divorces, or even into far worse legal trouble, because they got roped in by a genuine head case or ball cutting bitter bitch who went on to destroy them. I thank God I didn’t end up that way, but also lament the fact I can’t “unlearn” the knowledge that has been revealed to me, as it really has become a source of disillusionment. Clown world is a bitch, yo!
Now, maybe that’s just a function of age and gained experience. Or maybe I’m some kind of freak whose mind is tuned to a sideband many guys never seem to pick up on. I know other a few men who intuitively understand this stuff, but they appear still to be in the minority.
I’ve been a stepping stone for more women than I can count over the years. My poor judgement, and being extremely horny are to blame.
This may well be the key. I learned not to allow myself to be goaded by sex, which is almost like having a bullet proof vest to defend against manipulation by these cluster B cases. Some self control is a great way to avoid being drawn down into the hell of personal destruction by these sorts of women.
The interesting thing is that once they realize they cannot manipulate a particular man with sex, they largely lose interest. Not that it makes them inert, they are still dangerous to be around, and a man should always seek to avoid any further interaction with a known bunny boiler.
All that having been said, it isn’t easy. They know just how to push the buttons, and can be incredibly enticing if one isn’t wise to their tactics and methods. They are the contemporary analog of the sirens in ancient literature, and a man needs to overcome his basest desires to protect himself against the ruination that can (and usually does) result from extended involvement with such a specimen. Be careful out there, gentlemen.
We’ve been here the whole time, sweetheart.
And there’s not enough of us to go around.
My sons are in their 30s. My oldest is close to 40 and has a family. Both have been to Trade School and make well over $100k base salary. They both have houses, cars, good bank accounts.
My youngest is 36 and not married. He works around business and the women he says look down on him as they see he is not College Educated. He says that they do not realize he earns way more then most of them. He finds the younger ones are “stupid” or have kids and he will not raise someone’s kids. He just dates.
hate to say this. but my son is beyond stupid with women.
the last one he ‘hooked up with” was a real winner !
3 kids by 3 different dads(??)
tats, expensive hair and nails to boot ?
he “says I knew her in high school” kind of shit.
anyway. had to cut him off. he was always broke and asking for money. I am not a ATM. once or twice maybe. but ongoing ?
since then, he has. lost his great paying job. his house. the truck.
and is doing god only knows now.
so, yeah. my kid is stupid.
and now you know why I moved to the hills of pa and no one knows my number or where I am.
Smart man JG
Big Ruckus D and readers,
It’s gotten a whole ‘nother level of cray-cray out there post-election.
Have you seen any vid of women talking about ‘Aqua Tofana’?
Check out this (ex?-) cop talking about it, about 18 minutes:
stateofthenation.info/?p=3581
“Women Threaten Poisoning Men with ‘Aqua Tofana’: Be Aware and Protect
Yourself Against This Attack.”
When I see multiple tats, I stop hearing for some weird reason. Maybe I need a hearing aid.
No, a hearing crutch.
Yeah, she told the “good men” to get lost ten years earlier. Now she wants to “settle down” after fucking her life up. Prob the proud owner of a couple of talking monkeys as well. She thinks she “deserves” everything while bringing nothing positive to the table. Dating sites are overflowing with these types.
yeah. I kind of thought the same thing. chances are she has 2-3 rug rats and is broke and needs money ! or better yet. get some guy to BUY into her bullshit life and “save” her from the problem of bills,
buying food. finding a place to stay kind of thing.
after my divorce, I found out that there are thousands of them out there. BTW. they never love you. NO. they love your bank account
your house and the fact that you stupid enough to let her in the door.
I walked away from a lot of them. for some reason, the Burbs are full of them ?
one thing I did learn early on was to look at their bills. anymore than one credit card and it time to RUN.
Wonder what it looks like without makeup.
Wow that was odd. I just wrote an extremely long comment but after I
clicked submit my comment didn’t appear. Grrrr…
well I’m not writing all that over again. Anyway, just wanted to
say fantastic blog!
RTP, this comment went straight to spam. Your original did not show up in my spam or trash file. I don’t know what to tell ya… I approved this in the this instance. Sometimes with long comments and if you put three or more URL links in your comment it will kick it into the spam file for moderation and if it isn’t porn, or threatening a reader or politician with violence or clearly a “bot,” myself or Phil will approve the comment. So if you comment and it doesn’t show right away, give it awhile before sending a copy. I will trash duplicate comments.