It’s looking like the women folk are starting to see what’s really out there and are finding it lacking, bigly.
All of a sudden regular guys who have a job they go to and aren’t Soy Boy, limp wristed emotional wrecks seem to be in short supply.
Bustednuckles
Documenting The Death Of America
The full arm tattoo lets me know that she specializes in bad decisions.
Yes, she may express a valid point. But the extensive tatts cause me to discount her clarity of thought and decision making capability. And if I’m understanding her correctly, it sounds like she is a divorced (or otherwise single) mom, which means she probably didn’t follow the very advice she lays out in this video. Rather a conundrum, wouldn’t you say?
I know I’m a cynical bastard, but right now the whole “stop piling/hating on men” thing has become suddenly fashionable in social media circles. And so we are seeing a lot of videos being made that convey this message, or some related variation thereof. There are entirely YouTube channels of young , attractive women doing long form (20-3p minutes and longer) videos discouraging l the hate on men. And yet, they all have a linked Patreon to monetize their content with paid subscriptions. Let’s face it, there are a lot of people who will say just about anything for fame and money, so I remain skeptical of their motives.
And we know women (under a certain age anyway) love to do this kind of jump on the bandwagon/trending performative shit for attention even if they aren’t getting paid for it. Look how many other random things have suddenly trended on tiktok/insta videos where scores of women all get in on the act, then next month it’s something different again, so long as it’s widely perceived as popular in the moment. That repeatedly observable phenomenon makes it difficult for me to believe the sincerity of messages like this.
My point is that a lot of women will knowingly counter signal with things like this, once an idea or message looks to be hitting critical mass, because they know it will get a lot of men to either simp for them, or think more highly of them than the reality if their lives should entitle them to (in other words, men say to themselves “hey, this chick is different, she gets it. Eureka!”. But really, in most cases, it’s just the female “sneaky fucker” strategy being exhibited. All the worlds a stage, and women want to be front and center on it, all the time. Whatever strategy they believe gets them there is what they will employ.
Are you sure you aren’t a behavioral therapist or a psych nurse? That sounds like something I would have entered into a medical chart describing a woman’s assessment. It is clear and concise and a great summation.
Would you believe I’m a plumber (no joke) with further background in music, electronics, telecom and IT. Definitely an analytical mind, though. I’ve just spent enough time interacting with women to actually (mostly) figure out how they operate. And I have to admit, that’s not necessarily always a good thing for me.
It has pretty well taken all the “magic” out of interacting with women, and now I look at their quirks first and foremost through a filter of skepticism concerning their motives. Yeah, it has kind of ruined the illusion for me. But it also kept me from getting the Johnny Depp treatment; likely more than once, at that.
And know that there are a lot of Amber Heard types running around in the wild. There is a bonafide epidemic of psychological health crises out in the open that almost nobody cares to acknowledge. Look at the reactions of so many Trump haters in the last week. As much as we relish pointing, laughing at and shit-talking their unhinged behavior and meltdowns, it truly is a real life horror to consider once one gets past the initial bemusement at the spectacle of it all.
Nowadays I survey the wreckage of many decent men my age (50ish) who got beaten down in acrimonious divorces, or even into far worse legal trouble, because they got roped in by a genuine head case or ball cutting bitter bitch who went on to destroy them. I thank God I didn’t end up that way, but also lament the fact I can’t “unlearn” the knowledge that has been revealed to me, as it really has become a source of disillusionment. Clown world is a bitch, yo!
Now, maybe that’s just a function of age and gained experience. Or maybe I’m some kind of freak whose mind is tuned to a sideband many guys never seem to pick up on. I know other a few men who intuitively understand this stuff, but they appear still to be in the minority.
We’ve been here the whole time, sweetheart.
And there’s not enough of us to go around.
My sons are in their 30s. My oldest is close to 40 and has a family. Both have been to Trade School and make well over $100k base salary. They both have houses, cars, good bank accounts.
My youngest is 36 and not married. He works around business and the women he says look down on him as they see he is not College Educated. He says that they do not realize he earns way more then most of them. He finds the younger ones are “stupid” or have kids and he will not raise someone’s kids. He just dates.